Just like any other person, usually in bed. Can they thrust their hips? Also, is there a special vibrator to use? This is my situation. Scented candles, rose petals, lingerie, nudity, enticement, foreplay, wheelchairs and other apparatus can hold new use and appreciation for both sexes. The night before we planned to meet in person for the first time, he sent me a text expressing fear that I might not like him as soon as I saw him in his wheelchair. As a C4 incomplete quadriplegic male able to achieve reflex but not psychogenic erections the sight of my beautiful girlfriend still makes me want to pin her to the wall and tear her lingerie off with my teeth.
That is to much work for me.
If either wheelchair sex partner or soloist has major concern about a catheter for medical or aesthetic reasons tape it and any tubing to the body prior to love making. Institutional barriers to wheelchair sex and sexual relationships include cramped conditions, a lack of privacy, unwelcome intrusion by support staff, prohibited relationships with staff, prohibited sexual contact between residents and prohibited sexual relations between residents and visitors. Above all elsetalk with your partner. But in my opinion an open relationship will only tear you both apart more. Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities.