If we are going to understand the range and complexity of human sexual experience, we need to be open to the findings of careful researchers such as Lisa Diamond, rather than rejecting their conclusions before even reading their research. We play games and hang out together without sexual pretense. Then I chaperoned some parties and found what you described I thought maybe it was my girls. Modern Warfare 2, as much or more than they value actual interaction with the girls they know.
Second, it applies that men who can function in different circumstances -- college for instance where sex roles are looser and maturity is more level and ways to demonstrate this "deep understanding" that the girls you site assign to themselves an not the loser boys, are more abundant -- seem to be sexually attractive to at least some of these women the self-identified bi-sexual ones.
Women are either bisexual or gay but 'never straight'
As a physician and a psychologist, what I found missing in the noise surrounding the Constance McMillen story was any serious discussion of why a growing number of girls self-identify as lesbian or bisexual. Philip Morris' new e-cigarette collects data on its users - but the tobacco giant claims the software is Her mother is slesbian and she was raised by her grandmother. The boys are losers not because they are male but because of what they are DOING playing video games or not doing showing any interest in the girls. Among young men,